Breathing Exercise 呼吸练习

Breathing for Conflict Resolution 冲突调解时的呼吸练习

Box breathing before and during conflict resolution steadies both parties' nervous systems, enabling the empathy, perspective-taking, and clear communication needed to reach genuine resolution.

在冲突调解前后进行箱式呼吸,稳定双方的神经系统,促进达成真正解决方案所需的共情、换位思考和清晰沟通。

Expert Consensus — Clinical practice 专家共识 — 临床实践

4s inhale · 4s hold · 4s exhale

吸气 4秒 · 屏息 4秒 · 呼气 4秒

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How to Practice

  1. Before beginning conflict resolution, agree to take 2 minutes to breathe — either together or separately.
  2. Sit facing each other or side by side. Feet flat, hands relaxed in your lap.
  3. Inhale slowly through your nose for 4 seconds.
  4. Hold gently for 4 seconds, then exhale for 4 seconds, then hold empty for 4 seconds.
  5. Complete 4–6 cycles, then begin the conversation from a place of regulated calm.

如何练习

  1. 在开始冲突调解前,同意花2分钟呼吸——一起或分开进行。
  2. 面对面或并排坐下。双脚平放,双手放松地放在腿上。
  3. 用鼻腔缓慢吸气4秒。
  4. 轻柔地屏息4秒,然后呼气4秒,再空腹屏息4秒。
  5. 完成4–6个循环,然后从调节后的平静状态开始对话。

Key Benefits

核心益处

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Frequently Asked Questions

常见问题

Can breathing together actually help resolve a conflict? 一起呼吸真的能帮助解决冲突吗?

Research on co-regulation shows that synchronised breathing between two people promotes physiological alignment and social bonding. Even brief shared breathing can shift both parties from adversarial to collaborative mindsets.

关于共同调节的研究表明,两人之间的同步呼吸可促进生理协调和社会联结。即使短暂的共同呼吸也能将双方从对抗性思维转变为合作性思维。